What is their style according to Venus?
Watersigns: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Cancer or Scorpio or Pisces, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Water Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in a Fire or Air Sign, it may “turn up the heat” somewhat; but the more introverted and subtle Water Sign style will still show in some way.
If you have Venus in Cancer or Scorpio or Pisces in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn’t.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to “protect” you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others’ moods and react to their emotions. You seem very “empathic” or “sympathetic” to others’ feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one’s heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
Venus in Cancer
If you have Venus in Cancer in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Caring. You seem to want to know and understand the feelings or fears of the one you would flirt with. (If you are male, you come across as “a sensitive guy”.) You offer emotional support or a shoulder to cry on, and might become the confidante or confessor for the one you desire. The Cancer style is subtle, and to flirt does not mean overt.
Nurturing. You care for one’s comfort and cater to one’s emotional needs. Call it the “care bear” strategy. Cuddling and coddling is part of the care bear mating ritual. Feeding is a form of nurturing, and offering food is a form of flirtation for Venus in Cancer. An invitation to a home-cooked dinner may set the scene for seduction. Even the suggestion to split a pizza may mean more than a passing interest.
Mothering. Fussing over the object of your affections is an indication of interest. You may act like a mother (or father) to the one you would entice – not necessarily a “romantic” role, but one that can successfully seduce that certain someone. You pamper the one you desire and cater to their comfort (and might unconsciously call them “baby” more often than you or they are noticing).
Protective. You make one feel safe from harm or emotional hurts. The more of your affection they attract, the more protective you will act.
Secure. You seem to offer a safe haven, a secure future, or a home base (and you might even mention that you are a home-owner or talk about your house). You seem like someone who could make one feel “at home”, secure in the knowledge that they “belong” somewhere and are cared for. An invitation into your home is an invitation to romance.
Rooted. You value “family” and family traditions, and you value the past. Interest in someone’s family means interest in them, so flirting may involve family pictures, family facts, or family history. You might offer help in finding one’s roots or lost relatives. An invitation to meet YOUR family is not a flirtation, but a courtship.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Cancer then your most dominant need in love is emotional security. You are tender and sensitive in matters of romance and sex. You need to be nurtured and most easily express love for another by nurturing beyond a lover’s wild expectations. This could lead to co- dependent relationships where you end up getting hurt, especially if you confuse love with smothering which you sometimes do. Venus in Cancer is timid when dealing with romantic pursuits. You much prefer to prove to a potential lover how you can feed their heart and soul rather than be bold and direct in sexual matters. Feelings must be genuine and if hurt in love having Venus in Cancer is likely to shield you from opening your heart for quite some time.
Cancer is the most domestic sign of love. This is the Venus placement that enjoys making a home, decorating with art and fine furniture, playing beautiful music within its walls and creating or serving warm delicious family meals.
Venus in Cancer wants security. With this placement, a person gives their all to a partner, expecting love, affection and high quality love. Devotion is an unspoken requirement and is given in return. Venus in Cancer is highly emotional, very sensitive and cries a lot – although that is usually in secret.
If you have Venus in Cancer, you have deep desire to be so entwined that you can intuit each other’s needs and desires, and don’t even have to speak. That is because you carry the natural intuitive ability to do so! Affectionate and demonstrative, you enjoy being physically close – cuddling, holding hands and caressing with your partner. You also enjoy cooking for your partner and being maternal towards him/her. Children are an important facet of your life, as is taking care of your home. You view your family as your first priority and outside work is second place. Men with Mars or Venus in Cancer tend to look for a woman who is like their mother and who is devoted to him, home and family.
Venus in Cancer: believes love should be nurturing; likes people who need mothering (or who are mothering) and are appreciative of her efforts; attracts love by making people feel cozy and sheltered; expresses love by feeding and/or cooking for someone, remembering preferences, giving thoughtful tokens of affection; wants interdependence in relationships; emotional bonding and cuddling are aphrodisiacs.
Venus in Scorpio
If you have Venus in Scorpio in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Intense. You seem intently focused on the object of your desire. You appear primal, sultry, brooding, or “dark” – and perhaps a little “dangerous”. (I don’t know if you could say Venus in Scorpio “flirts” at all; for it often seems a subtle “seduction” is taking place that makes the first step of flirting seem superfluous.)
Smouldering. You seem to have passions ready to flame or to erupt – like a glowing ember which when fanned can flare into a fire of desire.
Sexual. You seem to act more “sexy” when in flirt mode, and may exude an enticing “animal magnetism” that subtly seduces the one you desire.
Mesmerizing. A look in your eyes can mesmerize. The object of your attention is drawn in by the mystery behind the eyes. One could lose oneself in their depths. You might be told you possess “bedroom eyes”.
Probing. You seem to stare into one’s soul, to sense one’s secrets. You tend to make the object of your attentions feel vulnerable somehow. You may ask probing questions about things other people would not venture to inquire about. Being the instigator of a Scorpio inquisition indicates some serious interest in the guy or gal being grilled.
Powerful. You seem strong – a sorceror, a saviour …or a slave master. A subtle sense of hidden power could attract a certain someone like a flame attracts certain flying insects.
If Venus is in the sign Scorpio then you have an intense need to love with more physical and emotional depth and commitment than perhaps any other sign. Love is not taken lightly and once love has infiltrated your soul it’s there for good. Venus in Scorpio needs to be in control of this decision to fall in love however so it’s likely you’ll end up being initially guarded and slow to reveal yourself to a prospective lover as you size up the genuine potential of long term romance. Sex is the ultimate expression of love to Venus in Scorpio; however you’re not interested in casual sex per se. You want intimacy. You want to know the good, bad and ugly when you’re in love with someone and experience the ultimate pleasures and pain together.
Mysterious, exciting, sexual Scorpio loves intensely. People born under this sign are loyal and protective. They can also be jealous and secretive. The Scorpion is most compatible with someone he or she feels can be trusted completely. They are not too fond of parties and like you to stay at home. Women involved with a Scorpio male may find themselves without much of a social life after a few years with their Scorpio mate. But that will suit him just fine!
Scorpios must be aware of their shadow side. While they have the gift of being able to achieve deep psychological transformation, it is not unusual for a Scorpio to come to that point through some DEEPLY serious drug and/or alcohol use/abuse or sexual experimentation. They may do these things to an extent that would probably kill or seriously maim the average person. Scorpios must ask themselves if they are being suspicious of others because they fear what is in the deepest, most hidden parts of their own soul. Scorpio is ruled by the planet Pluto. Pluto reigns over death, sexuality, rebirth, and transformation.
The Scorpio archetypes are The Snake, The Sorcerer, The Grey Lizard, The Phoenix, and The Eagle. Many are The Phoenix and fly into the Sun or close to it, crash, burn and amazingly enough come out the other side, sane, sober, substance-free and wise. Some go on to be great teachers of society and are viewed as very wise and noble.
A person with Venus in Scorpio is yearning to form relationships which embody deep, radical honesty and a “knowing” of the partner that is beyond judgment and words. Venus in Scorpio symbolizes a need to have a transforming and cathartic relationship where no matter what is said, no matter what is revealed, the other partner will not leave. The relationship must be safe enough to solidly embrace both partners no matter how dark and terrifying the journey down the rabbit hole becomes. In this atmosphere the person with Venus in Scorpio can overcome the inherent sense of distrust she/he has deep in their soul from a previous lifetime. With this type of relationship, the Venus in Scorpio person can be their authentic selves and emerge spiritually.
Venus in Scorpio: believes love should be passionate, intense, and life-altering; likes to associate with powerful people whose sexuality comes in contradictory layers (e.g., dresses provocatively but is a virgin, looks understated but moves like a stripper in private); expresses love by keeping a mate’s secrets, developing an emotional bond, and not wanting to share the partner’s affection; flirts through seduction; wants to have control and trust in a relationship; a strong sex drive, instant chemistry, intensity, and loyalty are aphrodisiacs.
Venus in Pisces
If you have Venus in Pisces in your birth chart, when you go into “flirt mode” you tend to “act to attract” in some of the following ways:
Mysterious. You seem intriguing, elusive, even enigmatic. Your air of mystery might invite an attractive someone to be seduced into a secret affair.
Sweet and Demure. You seem sensitive and vulnerable, or coy, or shy. Your sweetness is seductive and your demure demeanor is disarming. If you are female, an alluring femininity may flower and passively but powerfully attract the object of your affection.
Surreal. You offer intriguing illusions or an escape from reality, possibly in a romantic fantasy world that invites the one you desire to depart the drudgery of daily life. Perfumes or colognes, glamorous clothes, or creative cosmetics might add to your alluring air.
Soulful. You seem able to share deep feelings, or a higher consciousness. You seem a safe harbour for one’s soul. You seem like someone who could connect on a soul level. You might show a “soulful” look in your eyes as you glance at the one you would flirt with.
Self-sacrificing. You offer to serve some needs of the one you desire, putting them first and yourself last, even something as simple as offering your seat on the bus, or giving of your time to help someone with something. You may tend to lose your self-identity when you identify yourself too strongly with the object of your affections. (Beware that your willingness to make sacrifices might set you up as an unwitting victim. It is sweet to sacrifice your self-interest, but self-destructive to sacrifice your self-respect.)
Spiritual. You may seem like a spiritual guide to someone; or you may see your salvation in the one you desire.
If Venus is in the sign Pisces then you need to transcend the boundaries of physical love and completely surrender your body and soul to romance. You attract others easily with your compassionate and forgiving ways however this sensitivity does make you vulnerable to being easily taken advantage of. Venus in Pisces can confuse sex with love and expect impossible ideals from romance. It’s so easy for you to lose your breath and get carried away with a dreamy enchanted world you’ve created. You may fall in love with someone who another sign would quickly discard. Venus in Pisces is capable of seeing the potential for love in anyone. If someone understands your imaginative, dreamy tendencies and can respect your need to escape reality without using you, then you’ve found true romance!
Love and romance for someone with Venus in Pisces is an oceanic flood of emotions. Dreams and fantasies are Piscean territory. People with Venus in this sign wash back and forth between their fantasies and the reality of human relationships. They want a knight in shining armor on a white horse or a princess walking barefoot through the grass. They are willing to sacrifice themselves and dissolve all boundaries between themselves and the one they love. Love can be all-consuming.
Venus in Pisces people are moody, sensitive, tender-hearted, charming, playful and creative. Flirting is a major strength. Bring out the poetry and love songs and they will feel at home. The man with Venus in Pisces can be like John Travolta, going out of his way to shower his wife or girlfriend with romantic settings, flowers and gifts.
They also love unconditionally and that can be a good or bad thing. They may unconditionally accept someone with a Neptunian problem – alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling, pathological prevarication or sexual obsession.
At the same time, because of their sensitive nature, these folks may have a hard time committing because they are emotionally so sensitive. This sensitivity may also mean that they themselves have some of the Neptunian habits that they may be accept in those they love.
Venus in Pisces: believes love should be a perfect blend of an intuitive, spiritual bond and romance; likes nonjudgmental, creative people who think and communicate in imaginative ways; attracts love by being infinitely compassionate and seeing the best in people; flirts by developing and acknowledging a special connection; wants empathy, kindness, and sensitivity in relationships; dreamy kisses that cause tingles, foot massages, bubble baths, and mind-altering substances or practices are aphrodisiacs.
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http://www.astrologyzine.com
http://www.sexualastrology.com
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Specialwoman
http://sasstrology.com/
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