I want to thank everyone who commented–nice, angry, sweet, bitter, hostile, kind 
I learned a lot and I hope you did, too. We need each other in order to learn because the only real expert is the person with the placement. We need to learn
from that person how it feels. We can learn by seeing that person in action, too. One must be a good observer to be a good astrologer.
I learned some important things about the Moons. The most important thing I learned was that the Moons see loyalty differently. Cancer, Taurus, Capricorn,Scorpio and Leo Moon will have your back. You don’t have to ask. You don’t have to beg. You don’t have to cajole. You don’t have to tell them.
Other Moons may seem to be disloyal, from a Cancer Moon lens, but it is more an issue of their lens. An Aqua, and a Libra Moon will think out the situation. To a Cancer Moon like me, it will feel disloyal but it is their lens. Their lens is very different from mine.
I think that one will be one’s Moon sign, to a large degree. Hence, one would not really want a partner who did not understand one at a core level.
This was part of what I learned too. I will always feel betrayed if someone does not have my back in a way I feel represents loyalty. In a friend, one could accept this. In a partner, one would feel cheated. and one would feel as if one was not safe.
I am not done with the subject of Moons because they are my favorite planet in the sense that they are the very core of the person, the very heart and soul and that is where Cancer Moon lives.