Some people tell me not to be so “negative”. What IS negative is marrying the guy, having children and THEN seeing what the chart clearly told you *SIGH* In that spirit, I will give you some of my warning signs.
1. Chiron Conjunct the North Node
Chiron will play out. The North Node will play out. Chiron is pain. That which conjuncts the North Node becomes a THEME of the relationship. Hence, by simple math, we have a relationship with a pain theme.
2. Nessus conjunct a Personal Planet(Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus or Mercury)
The Nessus person will feel a very strong urge to abuse the planet person. The Nessus person may try to control it, but he will, likely, not be able to.
3. Bilk conjunct a Personal Planet( Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus or Mercury)
The Bilk person will try to take advantage of the planet person. Bilk is not, usually, a “bad” crime, such as murder, but a monetary taking advantage of the planet person.
4. Mars Conjunct the Moon
The Mars person feels a hostility to the Moon person. This aspect does not connote something “terrible” happening. I think it is, simply, a very unpleasant placement, particularly for the Moon person.
5. Pluto Square Saturn
This square can make for a cold hostility that could erupt into violence.
6 Moon square Moon
This aspect is not a “warning” in the sense of danger, per se. This aspect makes for a lack of simpatico, which I would not like in a close relationship. One person would see the color as black and the other would see it as red. There is not really a way to truly ( and in a heartfelt way) understand the emotions of the other person.
7. The Moon of one Person Unaspected to the Chart of the Other
This case is a much harder version of the Moon square Moon situation. In the case of the Unaspected Moon, there is really no way for the people to form an emotional bridge. The elements that are needed for this kind of rapprochement are simply not in the make up of each person.
8 The Sun of one Person is Unaspected to the Chart of the Other
In this case, there is a lack of understanding of the egos. The basic drive of the Unaspected Sun person cannot be understood by the planet person, through no fault of either person, of course. It is just the energetic make up of the charts.
9. Mars Square Mars
This synastry can be “hot” but after the “hotness” wears off, there can be power plays galore.
10.Nessus Conjunct the North Node
As with Chiron, one does not want Nessus, the planet of abuse, conjunct one’s North Node. The Nessus person will bring a theme of abuse to the North Node person.
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